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By Monica Debro

Believe in Your Dreams TV

It’s launch day for the Believe in Your Dreams TV Network! #LetsGo

Join us on Monday, January 17, 2022 at 7pm EST (US and Canada) for the epic launch party of the year. How do you attend? I’m glad you asked. Register in advance using the link below:

https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZAudeyuqjkiGtA0DlXrX4gA16_bKahzhBe7

From 01/17/22 – 01/20/22, you will be able to subscribe to the Believe in Your Dream TV Network and the Love Yourself to Life TV Show for
❤ $4.99 for one month
❤ $10.99 for 3 months or
❤ $47.99 for the full year.
❤ A 7-day free trial is available for a limited time offer!

If you believe in yourself, your dreams will come true!

 

The Believe in Your Dreams TV Network will be available on these AMAZING platforms:

 

Vision

“Believe In Your Dreams Television Network intend to change lives, by raising the bar and rocking many different digital media platforms, one television show at a time.” ~Dr. Nichole Peters, CEO

About the Network

 Love Yourself to Life will have authentic and transparent conversations with domestic violence survivors, leaders in heels, Coaches, TedX Speakers, and entrepreneurs. The Believe in Your Dreams TV Network will have shows from many different aspects and topics such as:
Embrace Your Life with Dorissa Mc-Calister-Carnell
Intentionally Spoken with Shawon ShaSha Shericka
The Write Stuff with Kim P Lengling
Help Me Help My Son with Lisa Adams
Never Stop Praying Global with Nicole D Roberts
The Miracle in You with Dr. Rene Minter
Leadership is Served with Dr. Karen Hills Pruden
Be the Light with Felice Kelly Gillum
Activate Your Faith with Judy Ambrose James
Women of Divine Distinction with Dr. Clara L Peters
The Hail to the Victor with Tracy Lowry
The Love Ting with Rio and Micca Watkins
Girlfriend ChitChat with Amurra Bey
Shoot to Kill with Pamela Conerly and Robyn Conerly
and many more!

Subscribe During the Week’s Special

From 01/17/22 – 01/20/22, you will be able to subscribe to the Believe in Your Dream TV Network and the Love Yourself to Life TV Show for
❤ $4.99 for one month
❤ $10.99 for 3 months or
❤ $47.99 for the full year.
❤ A 7-day free trial is available for a limited time offer!

Register in advance using the link below to learn more.

https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZAudeyuqjkiGtA0DlXrX4gA16_bKahzhBe7

Tagged With: #BelieveInYourDreamsTV, #BIYDTV, #IntentionalInfluence, #Love2Life

By Monica Debro

The Silent Treatment

There are numerous reasons a person uses silence. Examples of silence include praying, thinking, reflecting, observing, or controlling. Whatever the reason is, silence can be beneficial or detrimental to a relationship.

Praying

Praying does not require us to be bowed down on our knees, laying prostrate, or with our hands lifted. We can pray and the person next to us does not have an inkling of an idea that we’re praying. While you may think the person sitting next to you in a meeting is disengaged, he/she may be praying. Whether standing at a bus station, boarding an airplane, or getting on an elevator, someone is praying. No matter what environment we are in, silence allows us time to pray and seek God for peace, forgiveness, discernment, comfort, healing, direction, and a myriad of other reasons. The environment can be loud and boisterous or quiet and calm. A person sitting in silence may be using the moment to talk to the One who knows all and is all.

Hannah prayed in silence. She wasn’t concerned about what others said about her. Hannah knew that she needed to be in silence and pray to the Father. Eli assumed that she had been drinking when it was the total opposite because she was sober in mind and knew that God was the one who could answer her prayer.

Think it Through

Silence is necessary when after we’ve prayed, we need to think things through regarding a decision that needs to be made. It allows time to determine the best path to take, who needs to be involved, and what resources & support are needed. When we think things through, we can also identify positive and negative outcomes. We can project our potential wins and losses.

Self-Reflection

Just as we think things through, we often take time to reflect. Self-reflection is necessary for personal growth and requires silence. I can’t imagine anyone who does not take the time for self-reflection. We all experience moments of being on the mountain top and in the lows of the valley. Whether we are on the mountain top or in the valley, it is important for us to find a quiet environment to assess, meditate on and evaluate what we have done, gone through, and how we see ourselves. I encourage you to use this time to journal your thoughts and identify what went well and what needs to change. This allows us to make the necessary adjustments for improvements.

Observing

Hopefully, you are an observer who sits in silence and watches the behavior, character, and communication of others. I like to do this when I’m in a new setting—work environment, networking event, group vacations, and any time that I am going to be around a group of people for specific amounts of time. One of my reasons for doing this is to determine who in the group is the “chatterbox” #gossiper. This is the person I am aware of not to share personal conversations. When we observe, we can determine who the complainer is and not get entangled in their negativity. Another reason is to identify the person who is at a higher level than you and can increase your knowledge. This is the individual I want to connect and collaborate with because Iron Sharpens Iron (Proverbs 27:17).

Control

On the negative aspect, silence can be used as a form of control in a relationship. Giving someone the silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse. Not addressing the issue instead of talking it out increases stress and frustration. It can lead to feelings of loneliness and doubt about where they stand in the relationship. There is a difference in needing to take time to gather your thoughts and calm down after a negative incidence. This allows both parties to become “level-headed” and decrease the opportunity for the conversation to be argumentative and confrontational. The door is open for a calm crucial conversation that allows both people to share openly with the goal of having effective communication to resolve the issue.

Establish a timeframe for how long you all will take to “cool down” or “gather your thoughts” before coming together for an open and transparent discussion. Going to bed without talking, brings division in the relationship. You might think it doesn’t, but it does something to the person that is being ignored, controlled, and emotionally abused.

When the silent treatment is used as a form of control, the individual may ignore their partner for hours, days, or weeks. Knowing full well they are hurting the person, they choose to punish with silence and ultimately manipulate the situation.

Call to Action when he/she is being silent.

  • Have your own hobbies. Don’t be so “caught up” in the relationship that you lose a sense of who you are and what you like to do. Get active to get energized.  
  • Avoid perusing social media. This can cause more harm than good. You need your mind to be on something positive and not on the images others what to portray about their lives.
  • Continue to connect with family and friends. Plan a last-minute outing to do something fun.
  • Take yourself on a date. Have a mini spa day and get a manicure and pedicure.
  • Go to the park and read a book.
  • Go for a walk, pray, and soak in some vitamin D.
  • Establish boundaries and ask yourself: “Is it time to leave the relationship? Is this something that you can deal with by staying in the relationship if he/she doesn’t change?”
  • Be honest with yourself and make an informed decision.

Once you’ve made a decision based on the last two bullet points above, determine your next steps. Is he/she willing to make the necessary adjustments to improve communication in the relationship and avoid using the silent treatment? Your mental health should not be challenged as a result of being the receiver of the silent treatment. Your mental health deserves peace, comfort, and love. You are worthy to be loved to life!

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: #IntentionalInfluence, #Love2Life

By Monica Debro

Love Yourself to Life TV Show on The Believe in Your Dreams TV Network

When I first wrote Broken Believer No More, I said “this will make for a good movie.” Even then, I was Believing in My Dreams. Love Yourself to Life wasn’t a concept in 2015, but after I went through my healing journey, God taught me how to love myself to life.

❤He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Psalms 147:3 Love Yourself to Life has been a life-changer and will soon be a TV show on the Believe In Your Dreams Television Network airing on Amazon fireTV, Roku TV, Apple TV, BNJ TV, and Mini TV.

❤ I’m very excited about the guests who have already been scheduled to be on the television show and about the contract that’ll be signed next week. #epic Words cannot begin to explain how excited I am about the opportunities that have been afforded to me and the direction in which Love Yourself to Life is going.

Filed Under: Love Yourself to Life TV Show Tagged With: #BIYDTV, #Love2Life

By Monica Debro

Love Yourself to Life with Coach Tara Hall

Have you lost belief in who you are and what you can accomplish? Do you need a boost and a reminder of the importance of believing in yourself? Join me and Coach Tara Hall today on Facebook Live for an open and transparent conversation. It’s important that you embrace the ownership of “Learning to Believe in Yourself.” Why? Because you are worth it!
Tara Hall holds an undergraduate degree in Communications from Rhode Island College and a Masters Degree in Organizational Management from Eastern Connecticut State University. She is the owner of Tara Hall Inspired Solutions, LLC a personal and professional training and development company offering services as a 3x Author, Inspirational Speaker, Success Coach, and Workshop Facilitator. She was recognized as a 2020 Woman Rising Honoree by the Connecticut Women’s Business Development Council.
She has over 20 years of combined experience in leadership, coaching, and training. Tara is a Jack Canfield Certified Success Principles Trainer. Her style is rooted in building a culture of success in individuals, organizations, and communities through transformative, interactive experiences that bring out one’s best. She is an Amazon international best-selling co-author in the Women’s Anthology titled: Phenomenal Women Be Brave, Be Bold, Be Brazen and has self-published: The Power of 5%: Success Lessons to Amplify Your Life in March 2020 and her newly released compilation Emerging in January 2021.

Tagged With: #IntentionalInfluence, #Love2Life

By Monica Debro

Love Yourself to Life with Dr. Onika L. Shirley

Has your confidence been wavering? Have you lost faith in your ability to succeed and need to find the motivation to keep working toward your goals? Join me and Dr. Onika L. Shirley as we discuss Building Unshakeable Confidence. Sunday, February 28th at 1pm CST.
Dr. Onika L. Shirley, the Founder, and CEO of Action Speaks Volume, Inc. is an International Procrastination Strategist and Behavior Change Expert. She is known for building unshakable confidence, stopping procrastination, and getting your dreams out of your head and manifested into your life. She is also a Motivational Speaker and a Christian Counselor. Dr. Onika is the Founder and Director of Action Speaks Volume Orphanage Home in India, Founder, and Director of Action Speaks Volume Sewing School in Pakistan, Founder of Empowering Eight Inner Circles and ASV C.A.R.E.S.

Tagged With: #IntentionalInfluence, #Love2Life

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